bout man
Oprah wrote this about men
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> If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
> If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
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> Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
> Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
> Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.
> Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes
> you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you
> as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”. A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
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> Don’t settle.
> If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay
> because you think “it will get better.”
> You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
> Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
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> Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
> Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you,
> speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.
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> Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are… even if he
> has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
> He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are.
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> Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
> A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
> You should not be the one doing all the bending…
> compromise is a two way street. You need time to heal between
> relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage…
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> Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
> You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you…
> a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals…
> look for someone
> complimentary…not supplementary.
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> Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
> Make him miss you sometimes… when a man always know where you are, and
> you’re always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
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> Never move into his mother’s house. Never co-sign for a man.
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> Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need.
> Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
ehehehehhe………boleh juga/…
